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Susan Colantuono is CEO of Leading Women and author of No Ceiling, No Walls and Make the Most of Mentoring.
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"What are the top 10 things you think all women need to learn to master to succeed in life and work?"
To understand the difference between personal, professional and leadership excellence and act to develop all three.
"I came back and immediately sent an email to our VP clearly communicating the cost savings I achieved working on a project for investments for next year such 63% savings versus plan, 1 mill $ here another 12 mill$ (!) there – it is huge, Im proud of it and I said it this time…."Manuela not only wrote about sharing her "eye-opening moments with women back at work" she was actually able to put into immediate action the advice about demonstrating business acumen! She'll forever move forward in her career with eyes wide open.
"Thank you very much for your willingness to support our leadership research at Linkage. Your discussion of the excess emphasis on traits (rather than results) in modern business is one of the key highlights that came out of this series of interviews. Your candor has been extremely helpful to us..."Here are 4 of the key points I made during the interview.
You will find a short photo history about her here."If we work in unity, we will achieve our goal. We have a lot of things to do," she told the well-wishers, who quickly swelled to as many as 5,000. Speaking briefly in Burmese, she said they would see each other again Sunday at the headquarters of her political party."
Caroline Howard, deputy online editor of ForbesWoman asks an infrequently asked question: Do you know how to use a mentor? Here's my reply.What great questions, Caroline. Especially the "how to use a mentor" question. It's a question not frequently asked.At Leading Women, we want more women to understand how to use a mentor, not just why. That's why our mentoring program is free for GOLD Members and is structured to help with The Missing 33% and P.I.E. mentoring.
Based on my research the vast majority of advice about mentoring over-focuses on WHY to get a mentor, the advice TO GET a mentor and advice on the PROTOCOL of a mentoring relationship (such as follow-through, have an agenda, etc.). There is very little written about how to use a mentor. That's why Leading Women's mentoring programs, my presentations and writing focus on how to use a mentor.
We focus on using mentors to fill in The Missing 33%™ and getting a slice of P.I.E. mentoring not just a piece of C.A.K.E. mentoring.
Using a mentor to fill in the missing 33% of the success equation means asking for help and experiences that enable you acquire or enhance your business, strategic and financial acumen. Women get far too little advice about the importance of this in building careers (our research indicates only about 2% of women get advice about the importance of understanding the business of your business.)
Asking a mentor to serve up a slice of pie P.I.E. means asking to learn about the fundamentals of business Performance, ways of enhancing your executive Image and gaining Exposure to the right kinds of opportunities, people and how decisions are made. When a mentor serves up a piece of C.A.K.E., she is helping you build Confidence, giving feedback about your strengths/Aptitude or advice to help with situations that are testing your positive Attitude, he is providing "K"onnections to Resources and Encouraging you to reach for an opportunity you might never have imagined. Read more here: CAKE and PIE
Most women receive, give and talk about C.A.K.E. mentoring. And we all know that C.A.K.E is a real treat. But, most successful men and women (including many of the F500 women CEOs) have received P.I.E. mentoring! The more women who know how to use mentors for P.I.E. mentoring and filling in the Missing 33%, the greater the numbers of women who will advance in their careers. This is one of my messages and the ways women can build thriving careers with no ceiling and no walls.
I use this image not only because this blog includes several disconnected thoughts, but also because The Female Brain is an intriguing, important and useful book.Because studies indicate that women's careers are often motivated by a drive for meaningful work and because in most companies successful careers are built on leadership skills, I offer an important question for you to consider as you begin the New Year.
Let me put the question in context. As I define it in No Ceiling, No Walls, leadership is:
If you're like most women, you've received career advice that over-focuses on elements 1 and 3: knowing and cultivating your strengths (74%) and developing the skills to effectively engage others (24%). Advice about what it means to deliver key outcomes is sadly missing - only 2%.
Chance are that you haven't received career-success advice such as that received by Merrill Sherman, CEO of Bank RI. She was told, "Be for the business." It's this guidance that is at the heart of the question I invite you to ask yourself as you begin another year of work:
Is my employer an organization that does work and delivers products/services in which I believe?
If your answer is "no", you might have a hard time wholeheartedly committing yourself to delivering key outcomes. This means that the chances of achieving your career goals will be lessened because you won't be seen as "being for the business."
If you answer "yes" to this question, it will be easy for you to engage your heart (passion), head (creativity and innovation) and hands (execution) to achieve and sustain key outcomes in service of your organization's strategy. You will substantially increase your chances of being seen as having potential. You will leave work each day feeling as though you've done something important - and that sense is the difference between distress that leaves you exhausted and eustress (positive stress) that energizes you.
So, take a few minutes at the start of the year to courageously ask yourself if you believe in the organization that employs you. If you find that your answer is "no", develop a strategy to move to an organization in which you can believe. If your honest answer is "yes", there are still steps you must take to build a career with no ceiling and no walls. Make sure that you are able to climb the ladder on rungs of leadership by ensuring that you get high marks on all 3 parts of the leadership definition.
Lead ON!
Susan
Susan Colantuono is CEO of Leading Women and author of No Ceiling, No Walls. She blogs on networking for PINK Magazine. Follow her on Twitter.